So how’s it work’in for ya…..the abuse thing.   It doesn’t matter you aren’t legally married anymore, does it Tom….you can’t stand the idea of losing……not losing Marty, just losing…..You zero

You hit her, you yelled at her, you scared her, you lied to her, you took her share of the life savings and squandered it. You zero.

You threw her and your daughter out into the night, almost weekly, with no place to go, just because you were mad.  Thank goodness Boulder City is near Las Vegas and Henderson cause there are hotels where mother and grown daughter could  find a safe place to stay.You zero.

When Marty went to be with her dying mother, you would call her cell every  night to say you were going to kill yourself, in the desert, if she didn’t  fly back .  How do I know, I listened to your raving on the phone.  You zero.

She finally called the police, because of the abuse. The authorities were going to put you  under surveillance, while Marty could file a report….She declined because she didn’t want you to lose your job making $250,000 annually, and therefore, possibly losing what livelihood there was left.  You zero

Marty finally went to Family Court and a Restraining Order was issued…..( the judge had no problem making the decision after reading  the info she provided.) And then suddenly it was, ‘poor Tom’  the pitiful misunderstood husband.  Marty continued to think that the separation could be done amicably, by keeping him from being embarrassed in the Boulder City neighborhood they lived in.The order was done quietly and no one knew.  You left  and went to suck off the friendship of  local people, who had no idea you was abusing your family and not even working. 

You moved to Reno and rented a high-end apartment. You said you were going to be near your daughter who lived in Carson City. (She was only there for a few months)  You even told the prospective landlord you were renting the apartment for you and Marty, and it was going to be a surprise for her, when she came north!  Isn’t that special!y You didn’t have a job and had just finished blowing hundreds of thousands of dollars of their retirement nest egg. Who was to know….except maybe now.  Come to think of it, you did exactly the same thing to your current landlord in Las Vegas….You used recent  income tax records to show your income, however, you weren’t working and were separated.  ( I know that Nevada law states each spouse is entitled to half of the pie) My point is you weren’t working,  it was never mentioned, and it was presented as though there was good income to pay for the apartment.  You zero!  

 In the past you had been the one to boast about having one million dollars….you lived higher than necessary, just to show off, and when the family objected to the excessive spending, you made fun of them, remarking that they didn’t know how to enjoy money. You zero.

Judge Sullivan first heard the case…..and he was good…he was also interested in listening and not being biased.  What a shame when Judge Sullivan was sent to a Juvenile Courtroom and  Judge Elliot was drawn.  That  was when the bias began….One can look at the court records, and see how the judge has ruled in events concerning this divorce.      The examination of these lengthy and bias proceedings show that Judge Elliot serves with  an incomplete understanding of what abuse is and how it works.  I am sorry for anyone who has her for any kind of family court . 

Your attorney presented you as the one who was abused…..explaining that you were the loving husband who had held the family together, while Marty was the one with mental ailments.  Your attorney stated you urged her to seek help and was continuing to keep the home together when she filed the restraining order.    Judge  Elliot went right along with the idea, never checking  your past abusive ways concerning your wife, daughter, family, and friends.   Twenty plus people had signed on to come to court on behalf of  Marty, to share with the judge, exactly what kind of beast you actually are.  Oh, not necessary, it was decided, no police report, so no abuse. 

What will become of it all  Tom…..you continue to harass, to needle, to ‘not follow thru’ concerning the judge’s orders.  What you fail to understand is that we are free of you….our family is free. Marty and Andrea are free. 

You think you can continue to cause her pain…you are a hangnail, not a wound. You have no core family.  You have no contact with your family,and now they will know, they were right in staying away.

It’s over Tom…..give it up.  You lose……You zero